9. Always get to know what your children are reading, watching and listening to. All these messages about sex, which are sent by the media, are most likely at odds with your values. This is why it is necessary to become “media literate” about what you and your family members are watching and / or reading. You should also teach your children to think about everything in a critical manner; discuss with them what they are learning from the programs they watch and the music they listen to.
Although you will not be able to take everything your children see and hear under control, still you can and you are to make your views known, and of course, you can control what is going on in your house. To do it turn the TV off, cancel subscriptions and be clear about the movies, videos and records, which are acceptable.
10. Strive for a relationship that is warm and affectionate. Be firm in discipline and rich in communication. You can emphasize mutual trust and respect by the following:
Expressing your love, appreciation and affection clearly and as often as possible. Try to hug your children more, do not forget to tell them how much you love them every day.
Listening carefully to what your children are saying. Always pay attention to what they do.
Spending more time with your children, making this time as fun and pleasant, as possible. Remember, this is the foundation of your mutual relationship. This is the bank account, which will help you through the inevitable rough patches, coming ahead.
Being kind and courteous to your children, and letting them know that you expect the same from them. If you have more than one child, never compare them one against another, or never compare your child with someone’s. Let each of your child know that he / she is one of a kind and priceless.
Helping your children master new skills. It is necessary to mention, that real and long – lasting self – esteem is to be earned the old – fashioned way, by feeling good about things, you can do.
Trying to have at least one family meal a day. This time is to be used to talk, and not to argue.
And, you should know that it is never too late to begin to work on a good relationship with your child. And even incase if your teenage acts like he / she does not want to have anything to do with you, these are most likely not what he / she really feels. Children of all ages require a close and trustful relationship with their parents, and they always yearn for their help, support and approval.
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